Independent dating site reviews · Updated September 2026

Find the dating site that’s right for you

We test dating sites and apps hands-on and compare prices, safety and who you’ll actually meet — so you can stop wasting time on the wrong site.

  • 23 sites & apps covered
  • Free & paid plans compared
  • Safety-first advice

Our top picks this month

  1. 1HingeBest overall4.5
  2. 2eHarmonyBest for serious relationships4.4
  3. 3TinderBest free site4.0

Our top picks

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Best overall

Detailed profiles and a relationship-minded crowd.

Visit Hinge

Best for serious relationships

Compatibility matching for people ready to commit.

Visit eHarmony

Best free site

The biggest pool, and you can match and chat for free.

Visit Tinder

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Hinge

4.5

Best for: Finding a relationship in your 20s and 30s

  • Detailed, conversation-friendly profiles
  • Strong focus on real relationships
  • Free version is usable
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $30/mo

eHarmony

4.4

Best for: Serious relationships and marriage

  • Strong focus on long-term compatibility
  • Serious, older user base
  • Less time wasted on swiping
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo

Bumble

4.2

Best for: Women who want more control

  • Less unwanted messaging for women
  • Relationship-minded user base
  • Strong verification and safety features
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $15/mo

Match

4.2

Best for: Serious daters who like to search

  • Large, relationship-minded community
  • Powerful search filters
  • Web and app versions
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $25/mo

Tinder

4.0

Best for: Meeting lots of people fast

  • Huge, active user base almost everywhere
  • Free version lets you match and chat
  • Very fast and easy to use
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $10/mo

HER

4.1

Best for: LGBTQ+ women and queer people

  • Safe, focused community
  • Free matching and messaging
  • Community and events beyond dating
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $15/mo

Zoosk

3.8

Best for: Casual to serious dating on a budget

  • Large international user base
  • Mix of swiping and browsing
  • Web and app
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $20/mo

OurTime

3.9

Best for: Over 50s who like to browse

  • Built for 50+
  • Very easy to use
  • Free to browse
Free version
Limited
Paid from
≈ $20/mo

Badoo

3.7

Best for: Meeting people nearby, internationally

  • Large international audience
  • Free version is generous
  • Web version available
Free version
Yes
Paid from
≈ $5/week

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